Joined: Jan '08
Location: Brazil
Age: 44 (M)
Posts: 1788
Hello to all, I decided to create this thread so that I could ask all of you to send me some positive energy if possible. I don´t know, take like 7 seconds of your life and think of me and send good vibrations.
I´m going through a tough personal fase in my life at this moment. Don´t really feel it´s necessary to share, I hope you all can understand.
Joined: Dec '07
Location: Denmark
Age: 40 (M)
Posts: 2644
Hey fodz im very sad to hear this, I really hope that it is something time or effort will change. Beer and naked women can make alot of problems disapear but only for a short while, but sometimes this is enough to get your head str8 so you can solve or find a way to live with your prob.
I hope your dearest are ok and you will overcome your problems
Joined: Jan '08
Location: Canada
Age: 37 (M)
Posts: 1354
hey fodz,
im really sorry to hear that you are in a tough spot right now, i always think of you as like an older brother lol a wiser, nicer older brother lol... so if there is anything any of us can do to help out let us no! be more then glad to help.. so whatever it is i hope things cheer up and everything goes well...
Joined: Jan '08
Location: Brazil
Age: 44 (M)
Posts: 1788
Thank you all for the support. Unfortunately I am in great disconfort. A divorce seems inevitable and that is very tough to deal with. I am not a victim, I too contributed to this decision, but it is not easy knowing that I dedicated my youth, from my 23 to 28 years of age invested in what was supposed to be a family, now it all seems in vain. The love, the dedication, the time, the money. Makes me very angry
Joined: Feb '08
Location: United Kingdom
Age: 44 (M)
Posts: 1170
join the club mate what ever i do im beat i cant seem to get a break its really doing my head in anyhand i play i lose and the ones i fold always come in how am i meant to change my luck argh
Joined: Feb '08
Location: United States
Age: 51 (F)
Posts: 581
Ahh..... TheFodz if I can do anything to help you out. Just ask me, I too am a married women and I hope Id be able to help you out...... Im sorry your facing this problem
Joined: Jan '08
Location: Brazil
Age: 44 (M)
Posts: 1788
Thank you very much Golden. At this moment, we are apart and everything seems so different. I´m not a pessimist to the point where I say that nothing will ever be the same, or as good as it was because I must believe that changes can happen for the best. What gets me at this point and causes great deal of pain is that constant thought and feeling of "loss". Even in laughter I am reminded of it and It is not a good feeling. So I don´t know how to cope with this yet, I go from sad to angry, from angry to I don´t care, and I keep switching moods... this is really strange and it energy consuming.
Joined: Feb '08
Location: United Kingdom
Age: 44 (M)
Posts: 1170
hey fodz try this breathin and out throu the nose and in throu the mouth and out throu the nose and in throu the mouth just dont stop breathing tho or your in major trouble mate
hahahahahaha
