I could really do with some help, on a personal matter ive got no one else to turn to and i dont know what to do, am in deep trouble really...... dont want to really say here but...., cause i dont want to break the forum rules, also very personal or put a person in a situation, they feel they have to help me if i tell them ...........
oh god sakes i dont know what to do, am gonna sleep on it if i can get to sleep and might tell ya tomorra moring if im still on the internet.........
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It's not a lot of information you've given there mate.. If it's gambling related - I used to have a (serious) gambling problem - that cost me a lot - I'm OK now - but if that's you're issue - I may be able to (talk to you?) help you with it ?
But - I dunno - if your problem is something else - I don't know - look man - I've fucked up a lot of s**t in my time, in fairly bad ways.. I been addicted to everything you can name and burnt nearly all my bridges..And come back from it all now. So I can probably assist with something or another.. But your not giving much info as to what your issue is.
Sounds very dramatic ? And your past posts on here have been a little disturbing also.
------------ Just one other thing - remember to relax and try and calm yourself if you're suffering from heavy anxiety over something.. Things are never as bad as they feel (unless you're feeling a hearth attack or something - in which case call an ambulance )
Posted by jessthehuman: It's not a lot of information you've given there mate.. If it's gambling related - I used to have a (serious) gambling problem - that cost me a lot - I'm OK now - but if that's you're issue - I may be able to (talk to you?) help you with it ?
But - I dunno - if your problem is something else - I don't know - look man - I've fucked up a lot of s**t in my time, in fairly bad ways.. I been addicted to everything you can name and burnt nearly all my bridges..And come back from it all now. So I can probably assist with something or another.. But your not giving much info as to what your issue is.
Sounds very dramatic ? And your past posts on here have been a little disturbing also.
------------ Just one other thing - remember to relax and try and calm yourself if you're suffering from heavy anxiety over something.. Things are never as bad as they feel (unless you're feeling a hearth attack or something - in which case call an ambulance )
yep jess your on the right track its somert to do with that
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Posted by dozn01:
Posted by jessthehuman: It's not a lot of information you've given there mate.. If it's gambling related - I used to have a (serious) gambling problem - that cost me a lot - I'm OK now - but if that's you're issue - I may be able to (talk to you?) help you with it ?
But - I dunno - if your problem is something else - I don't know - look man - I've fucked up a lot of s**t in my time, in fairly bad ways.. I been addicted to everything you can name and burnt nearly all my bridges..And come back from it all now. So I can probably assist with something or another.. But your not giving much info as to what your issue is.
Sounds very dramatic ? And your past posts on here have been a little disturbing also.
------------ Just one other thing - remember to relax and try and calm yourself if you're suffering from heavy anxiety over something.. Things are never as bad as they feel (unless you're feeling a hearth attack or something - in which case call an ambulance )
yep jess your on the right track its somert to do with that
Sorry to hear dozn
all I can say is Jess talked about two matters: gambling addiction, drugs addiction; whatever it is these are not matters to be undervalued; . Rarely I have known/heard about someone who defeated this kind of problem by himself: there are structures specialized in helping people suffering this issues.
Don't be afraid to ask for help before some irrecoverable damn it is done
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hope today u feel more good and all the problems gone out becouse we allways love u dozn and then u leave us we allways know that u ll come back and then u ll feel bad all off us know that we also can be in the same situation and we alllways wish u more luck and no sad days for u just smile and all will be good i hope
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Posted by magatt966:
Posted by dozn01:
Posted by jessthehuman: It's not a lot of information you've given there mate.. If it's gambling related - I used to have a (serious) gambling problem - that cost me a lot - I'm OK now - but if that's you're issue - I may be able to (talk to you?) help you with it ?
But - I dunno - if your problem is something else - I don't know - look man - I've fucked up a lot of s**t in my time, in fairly bad ways.. I been addicted to everything you can name and burnt nearly all my bridges..And come back from it all now. So I can probably assist with something or another.. But your not giving much info as to what your issue is.
Sounds very dramatic ? And your past posts on here have been a little disturbing also.
------------ Just one other thing - remember to relax and try and calm yourself if you're suffering from heavy anxiety over something.. Things are never as bad as they feel (unless you're feeling a hearth attack or something - in which case call an ambulance )
yep jess your on the right track its somert to do with that
Sorry to hear dozn
all I can say is Jess talked about two matters: gambling addiction, drugs addiction; whatever it is these are not matters to be undervalued; . Rarely I have known/heard about someone who defeated this kind of problem by himself: there are structures specialized in helping people suffering this issues.
Don't be afraid to ask for help before some irrecoverable damn it is done
good look
THIS - I crashed out hard - and was literally living without a home before I realised I couldn't pull myself through my s**t. It took some serious self-re-assment and asking for help. And accepting help, going to a psychologist and actually isolating myself from society (for 2 years :O)
I'm happy to give you any advise, or whatever I can, because I've been there and not everyone understands what it is like.
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Posted by dozn01:
Posted by dlkiv: dozn01 many are on twitter and if you dont feel right airing it here try a pm on there.
Anyway, I dont want to see any bad happen to you so hang in there and good luck
cheers dlkiv that means alot to me at the moment
and thank jess for your honest comments...................
i really need to do something about this problem
You are more than welcome. I have to go to a work meeting today and take care of the meatheads, but honestly if I can help let me know. I will be back in a few hours. If you want, my name on twitter is the same as here .
Now lets get this straightened out for you,( hopefully we can), so you and I can get back to our love/hate friendship
with help from my friend i will get through this Willpower is the inner strength and the inner engine, that propels towards success and achievement; It is the power that pushes into action in every area of life. Willpower is one of the most important and desirable inner powers, and its lack or presence determines, whether you will fail or accomplish your desires and ambitions and attain success.
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Posted by dozn01: with help from my friend i will get through this Willpower is the inner strength and the inner engine, that propels towards success and achievement; It is the power that pushes into action in every area of life. Willpower is one of the most important and desirable inner powers, and its lack or presence determines, whether you will fail or accomplish your desires and ambitions and attain success.
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doz,I hope your only joking and that you have some one you can talk too about your problems,what ever they be, surely their must be some one who can lend an ear face to face instead of people you dont know? wish you the best man
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Dozn01 I wish you the best for you and you can do it. I have had many addictions in my life and it took some serious willpower and fight to fix my life and get back on track when I was younger. I had a serious health problem fours years ago and I'll use the word Acceptance and when you can do that you can get your mind together and beat anything by focusing positive, using your inner strength, and fighting hard. The monkey on my back fell off when he found out I had more power then he did and he wasn't going to ride on me anymore. I wish you the best my friend and you can talk to me anytime I can give you my email, or if you use skype or any kind of messenger. Best of Luck----CrazYhorse
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Dozn, I hope things work out for you. Having gone through some ups and downs in the past few years my main regret was keeping it inside and trying to deal with things on my own, instead of speaking to my spouse and getting help. No matter who you are or what you have done there are always people in this world who love you and will reach out to help you. Let us know how you are doing please.
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