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Off topic - to the guy who downvotes my posts (even posts that show not at all a reason to), and the guy who equals them by thumbs up, I just want to say I couldn't care less about downvotes (especially if the post gives no reason to, so yes, you can save these 2 seconds of your time), as long as it doesn't get to my posts not being visible anymore Thanks to the latter guy anyway
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You want to become an educator and you come here in a forum with a very long story because you how money to someone and you can't repay him. IMO you do not make apology to one that you can't repay however may pay pay the guy and then apologize to have taken so much time to pay him back.
I do not have to much respect to a guy that make mistakes over mistakes meaning you and trying to explain them on a forum. I just wonder what kind of educator you will become.
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Posted by BeMyATMplz: Off topic - to the guy who downvotes my posts (even posts that show not at all a reason to), and the guy who equals them by thumbs up, I just want to say I couldn't care less about downvotes (especially if the post gives no reason to, so yes, you can save these 2 seconds of your time), as long as it doesn't get to my posts not being visible anymore Thanks to the latter guy anyway
I'm the latter guy balancing the (non deserved in my humble opinion) thumbs down someone is putting on every your post.
Time for the other one to show up
PS: don't misunderstand me, I'm 100% with Jovi on this event
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Posted by pinotte: I just wonder what kind of educator you will become.
In all respect, I find this pretty superficial. working with most clientele (especially ones like teenagers) having done huge mistakes does not eliminate you for doing a social job, it's more of the opposite, because it will increase your ability for empathy. Also, the least people have been always flawless in their lifes. As long as you want to make good for your mistakes I don't see how this makes one a bad and evil person. It doesn't excuse for their past actions, which was, admititly, in my case very bad, but in my opinion if no one gets the chance to become better in all aspects than they have been in the past, then there would probably be more bad people than anything. How can you judge me solely from what you read over the internet? How can you even closely judge how I act & work in my 'profession' (with 5 years long preparing before working for wage I'd call it that) and with children/teenagers/young adults? Sorry but that's what I "have not much respect for".
Edited by BeMyATMplz (08 October 2015 @ 15:04 GMT)
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Posted by BeMyATMplz:
Posted by pinotte: I just wonder what kind of educator you will become.
In all respect, I find this pretty superficial. working with most clientele (especially ones like teenagers) having done huge mistakes does not eliminate you for doing a social job, it's more of the opposite, because it will increase your ability for empathy. Also, the least people have been always flawless in their lifes. As long as you want to make good for your mistakes I don't see how this makes one a bad and evil person. It doesn't excuse for their past actions, which was, admititly, in my case very bad, but in my opinion if no one gets the chance to become better in all aspects than they have been in the past, then there would probably be more bad people than anything. How can you judge me solely from what you read over the internet? How can you even closely judge how I act & work in my 'profession' (with 5 years long preparing before working for wage I'd call it that) and with children/teenagers/young adults? Sorry but that's what I "have not much respect for".
If you can read i am not judging just asking a question if you can see THE
But i still think that your post is out of order before you pay the guy and then apologize for being so late paying him.
He still young pinotte. Let's calm down. At least he apologize . Let's support him and give more advise to him. I don't mean your comment above is negative . just sound too hard in his condition, lol
He still young pinotte. Let's calm down. At least he apologize . Let's support him and give more advise to him. I don't mean your comment above is negative . just sound too hard in his condition, lol [B/]
Comletely agre on your line on this.
I'd give him a chance: we made a big mistake messin up Jovi loan but, after a long time, he came bach on here showing up. He seems to be repentant of his behaviour but don't know how to solve things.
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For anyone wondering where I have money from, a friend is staking me on pokerstars.fr for 50/50 cut, I play mostly 0.50€ Fifty50's. I played about 2600 games over last ~20 days (first week of that I had holidays and grinded approx. 1500 games), there is also a leaderboard I make approx. 10-15€ per week from, while beating the game at about 8% ROI (a lot for Fifty50's even this low, most grinders are down pre rakeback on .fr), so you can make your own calculations how much that equals. For the sake of my own I won't reveal my screenname, but I can assure that a substantial % of my own profits went into this.
One thing I want to mention though is that there are a couple individuals that showed their real face in this situation. I find it ridiculous that a few (I won't mention names) members bashed me while being in no way related to this.
I have seen that there is an individual who owed one other member $10, now came back after several months and paid this sum. No bashing, no bad comment, not even questioned why he took so long to pay $10.
I tried to come up honest and I give it my best to resolve it, I get bashed. The other guy just pays, no explaination nor anything given (while I have seen on sharkscope that he had earned the "stolen" sum several times as well). Just because he won $3.4K in a tournament now he paid back these $10 and sent 2 members "a gift" (not mentioned how much it was) he is even called generous? lol sorry but this is just dumb. I have worked with and supported disabled people and they show more sense than the couple individuals even sucking up (on the other hand I have also worked with old people before and with one individual member that might be the reason for his nonsense).
I was only wanting to show humanity by explaining my situation. I'm sorry that it came over as making excuses, it definitely wasn't.
On the other hand I want to thank a few other individuals (I hope you know who you are), who came in here, showed no judging, and gave their thoughts politely. I will continue working this off as soon as I can.
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My advice to all you folks who :Be extremely carefull when it comes to gambling,,as most of us know..addiction is just around the corner waiting to get you...and yes,gamblingaddiction it can easily ruin someones live..i've seen many examples in RL.
instead you can better be addicted to poker: But be aware..pokeraddiction can improve your pokergame and you might become realy good at it..unless your not really addicited offcourse..
ps. Very sorry to hear about your fathers illness..i wish he will recover and overcome this awfull illness. I lost my mother 23 years ago so i know what your going threw,,200$ has no value at all ,compared to your fathers health,, try focus on your family and good things in live..im sure positive things will come to your path.
